ABOUT ME....ABOUT ME....err...ABOUT ME....Thats a good question..

I suppose thats what this website has been about from the beginning my search for me... What is it that attracts me to ABism? why I feel that I need to do these things that I do.. All these things I have been discussing and exploring with other Abies on line. I cant explain why people practice infantilism, I`ve read many great theories all describing in very technical psychological terms why the human brain feels the need for regression, I have also read many other peoples personal theories of why too, and they are all completely different, some common themes - of course, but on the whole totally different.

So anyway, I`m male, 31, self employed, lots of friends, well respected, always busy - apparently normal. Too normal to perhaps risk a photograph????? there is a photograph of me on this site... have a look and you will find it.. although it will be where you least expect it

The AB scene to me, represents open mindedness, people who are not afraid to remember the past, those who haven`t succumbed to society's pressure to "put away childish things" who can show their personal strengths and weaknesses to friends. It shows an openness and caring about all states of mind. ABies haven`t lost the value of "play", the hold on innocence they have is invaluable. The freshness that they bring into the world invigorates and, like me, they abhor the horrors of conformity of the "adult" world and the restrictions that "society" and "normality" enforce to crush the individuals spirit.

I have been an active member of the scene for over 6 or 7 years. First as an AB but as time has gone on I have discovered myself to enjoy more fully the experience of giving that comes with the Daddy role. I feel that a Daddy role is of a gentle carer, I see my role as a compassionate and loving one. I am here to help the AB forget about the world and be truly focused on themselves and there immediate needs. I like to think we can spend some quality time together and reassure my charge that he/she is special, wanted and needed. This brings me a powerful sense of achievement and inner calm.

I live with my ownest AB girl Little girl Kirsty who I met online and after a year or so of frequent play together, we moved in about 6 months ago, we have set up our home together and it is coming together..just. :)

Our play is a very fulfilling, every female AB I have met plays in a subtly different way. Each lady has a particular outlook and viewpoint on what she gains from her regression. Some like the helpless sense of being a newborn, some seek the individual attention of being Daddy’s little princess, some want to recapture the gentler feminine qualities that have been submerged or quashed in a male dominated world. Some regret the loss of innocence and wonder, that the harsh reality of the world has removed from them, some miss the times when they could struggle for independence and rules could be pushed and bent with little or no consequences, some relish the sexual control of strong male figure and some seek the physical discipline of a righteous guider. Most of them, feel a little of most of all these things. And this guided play can bring around a enormous sense of personal relief. So I try to match my role to their needs when ever possible it is an advanced form of story telling and always have a continuity and fixed themes as we discuss before we start or build up on over time. Physical play is the same I like to get to know my charge intimately before we meet and I can guide the session as invisibly as possible for the most satisfying results. There are many things that I like to do with my little ones, like dressing, cleaning and feeding, playing with them, or telling them stories. I am very open minded and will try anything but I do not like to give out intense pain or torture, that is the domain of a BDSM Dom, I don’t mind administering light punishments, over the knee spankings or verbal scolding though.. or even slight humiliation in publiccan be fun, if that is what they wish for. But I like my little ones to leave with a light heart and a warm smile, because then.. so do I.

So wheres the harm in regression to a time where there were no rules..... a time where love was unconditional....a time where you were safe and warm... the time where your mother cared4baby... Abism....Care4baby. Thats me.

Care4baby hasn`t given up his day job...just yet. He designs websites for big nasty corporations, he charges what he wants to work for them, does what he wants, says thanks and runs away.....quickly.

But, and theres that But again... he hasn`t forgotten his roots and wants to create UKAB sites for UKAB suppliers for AB supplies, large or small. Care4baby wants to see the UK scene take a dramatic image makeover and stand proudly against the USA and European sites and even those really funky but totally indecipherable Japanese ones.

So if your a UKAB who wants to stick his head out of the crib...give us a call. Or if you are a UK supplier (new or old) mail me and we can talk about a no-cash deal ...will work 4 didees.